I missed both my grandparents’ funerals.

That’s the experience that changed what I believe work is supposed to be about.

The cost of renting out your presence.

Two days I can't get back taught me more about work than any book I've read.

The first time, I was booked for a show. The money was spent before I’d earned it, and I couldn’t afford to cancel. So I stood on a stage making strangers smile on the day I should have been standing with my family.

The second time, I was so broke I couldn’t afford to get there. Simple as that.

Both times it was the same reason: making money meant my body had to be in a particular place at a particular time. I had rented out my presence to people who wanted me, and I couldn’t be with the people who needed me.

After sitting with that, I decided I needed a different way to make a living. One where I could say no to bullshit and yes to life.

The work serves the life now.

I still perform. I still speak. I love doing all that. The difference, now, is that I choose to do them. I don't have to do them. They don't own my calendar.

I took the skill underneath twenty-plus years of mentalism (understanding attention, trust, resistance, belief, decision-making, and what people actually respond to) and then aimed it at the business world.

Now I help excellent people and companies become easier to recognize, easier to choose, and harder to forget.

A few things about me.

I’d rather lose the sale than win it with a lie.

Persuasion works better when it is built on understanding instead of pressure. That is true on stage, in sales, in leadership, and in life.

Paid magician at 13.

A company paid me $200 to perform at its summer picnic. I have been, in the best sense, supremely unemployable ever since.

Home matters.

Married to Ashley. Dad to two daughters. The life outside the work is the point of designing the work well.

Wing Chun geometry occupies too much of my brain.

I am fascinated by systems, leverage, structure, timing, and how a small change in position can change the entire outcome.

The short version of the credentials.

I have spent more than twenty years using live audiences as a laboratory for attention, trust, persuasion, memory, emotion, and decision-making & then using those lessons in the business world.

Professional mentalist
20+ years

Rooms with real stakes
Vegas · TV · Fortune 500

Live laboratory
15,000+ performances

Clients and audiences
BP · State Farm · United · Discovery · US Military

Your skills should set you free.

I help excellent people develop personal brands, market themselves without feeling bad about, get good at sales without being a scumbag, and think about their role on planet earth. Sounds like a lot. . . because it is.

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I write about psychology, business, meaning, communication, leverage, and building work that serves the life you actually want.